Stop complaining about your boyfriend, best friend, coworker, etc. who mistreats you. If someone is in your life and you don’t feel like you’re getting the respect you deserve, demand it. Especially if it’s a friend or significant other. A person will only do what they feel they can get away with. You sitting back and accepting the bullshit someone is feeding you is a nonverbal way of saying “I condone this behavior”. Demand respect, or accept your role.